Friday, March 23, 2007

Where do I begin? (warning: LONG POST)

March madness is definitely the key word (or words, I guess) here. No, I am not an NCAA basketball fan in any way, shape, or form. I am more referring to the insanity that has been the last two weeks. Where do I start?

Well, I started off the week of 3/12 with a bang, and a speeding ticket. My first ever ticket. I got caught in a speed trap in Atco. It is 35 most of the way, except through this stretch in the middle of Atco where it goes down to 25. In the three years I have had this job, I don't think I have ever gone slower than 35. Well, I was clocked at 42. On top of that, I had an expired insurance card (I could have sworn I put the new one in my car--I bet I accidentally threw out the new one and kept the old one). So, I got a ticket for that too. Then, the cop pointed out that none of my brake lights came on when I pulled over. He was nice enough not to give me a ticket for that, but this was obviously a serious problem, so I was car-less on Tuesday, since the car had to go to the shop and have the lights fixed. I ended up with two tickets, one for the insurance card, and the other for speeding. He only wrote speed at 34 on the ticket, to get me two, rather than four points on my license. I have to go to traffic court. If I can prove I was insured at the time I was pulled over, they will drop that charge. I also have to talk to the prosecutor about dropping my ticket to zero points (I am told they do this all the time).

During school that week, things were pretty much insane. All of my music lessons were canceled and I had a completely whacked out schedule because of state testing. Tuesday, was a half day, with conferences in the evening. Now normally, as a related arts teacher, I am not involved in conferences. However, my fellow middle school colleagues decided this year that it was unfair that we don't usually have conferences, and scheduled us a booked-solid schedule of 'round robins' (basically group conferences, with all of the student's teachers, the parent, and sometimes the student), without asking us. About half of these students are not a problem for me, and many were not even requested by the parent. I guess my middle school colleagues forget the amount of extra work we do with related arts: the various performances we have to put on during the year, the prep-work that goes into running an instrumental music department, the extra hours we spent finishing the yearbook.

And the yearbook was probably the biggest issue here. Our deadline was 3/19, but I wanted to have everything submitted before Friday, so that we didn't have to worry about it for the weekend. My plan was to get it all done during conference times, but since we were booked solid, this was not a possibility.

On Tuesday, after our early dismissal (12:45), Meggie and Maddie came up to school to keep me company. The art teacher and I worked on the yearbook until about 5 or so, when Meg and I had to go pick up my car from the shop. Then, we had the conferences at night (more on those later). Wednesday, we stayed till 6 or so, and then I had to go home to teach a lesson. Thursday, we were at school till after 8, when we had all by 5 pages submitted. Those remaining five had to wait until we could get approval (they were ads) and we needed one more picture. As of Friday 3/16, the yearbook was finished. Now, we still have about 30 pages of proofs coming our way, but we were very thorough when we made these pages, so hopefully they won't require a lot of corrections. The book looks great, though! I truly learned the ins and outs of Adobe InDesign, and created some really nice spreads. All I can say, is that there is a major weight off of my shoulders now.

Back to the conferences, despite being rather annoyed that I was involuntarily included in these round robins, I decided to make the best of it and prepare. For each parent I would see. I printed out a student summary report, and noted areas of strengths and weaknesses. I had a general idea of what I was going to say, and felt ready to deal with the parents. Tuesday night, of the 6 RRs I had scheduled, TWO parents actually showed up. Good to know how much these parents care about the child's education. Wednesday and Thursday were better, but in several of the conferences, it felt like a major waste to even be there. The 'core' subject teachers pretty much monopolized the whole thing. And the related arts teachers got like a minute to say something, if they were lucky. What a waste.

Friday was back to normal. No testing, a full school day. However, I had some major preparing to do for the following week. Every year, I have to teach on the stage during the 2nd week of testing. First off, I make too much noise (hey, I am the music teacher, what do you want?), and I am right by the elementary classrooms (who are testing this week), so I get moved. Also, they need to use my room for special ed. testing. My first year, I was not happy at all about this, but I have learned to live with it. I kinda think of it like a teaching 'vacation.' I get to pack up all of my stuff, and teach somewhere else for a week, and then come 'home' to my regular classroom. Well, my goal was to move everything I needed to teach the next week (my keyboard, whiteboard, all percussion instruments, TV cart, lesson materials, music stands, etc.) on Friday after school. Well, an ice storm, prevented that from happening. I moved about one cartload worth of stuff, and decided to get home before the roads got any icier. What I contrast to the last weekend, which felt like spring. The ice eventually turned to snow. When it was all said and done, we got about 3 inches.

Friday's ice storm prevented us from getting a head start on shopping for Maddie's christening on Sunday. We cleaned as much as we could, but were both exhausted, and didn't get a whole lot done. Saturday, we went to Wal-Mart and Sam's and did all of the shopping (groceries, and for the party), then spent the rest of the day cleaning, and getting ready for the party. Meg's family arrived in the evening, and bought us take-out from Bella Vita.

Sunday, we got up early to finish getting everything ready. Then, we were off to the church, in two cars, so I could drop Max and his crate off at my parents so we wouldn't have to listen to him bark all day. The baptism at church went very well. Maddie was cute and smiley, and didn't cry at all. The party was also a major success, despite having bought WAY too much food. But, it made for some really good leftovers. Below are a few pictures. Click the link below the picture to jump to the web album to see more.




Maddie posing in her Christening gown for the camera.

Then, after a no-weekend weekend, it was back to another insane week of school.

This was I was on stage all week. In the last two years, things didn't go so well on stage. I ended up having some major behavior issues (like an entire 7th grade class diving under the curtain and leaping off the stage at the same time--I'm serious). This time around, it was much better. I ended up turning the stage into a pretty good classroom. The week was actually much easier than last, mainly because the yearbook was done, but I also had my regular schedule back.

Today (Friday), was the only day I school that I stayed really late. I had to move all of my equipment back to my room. Next week is just another normal week, but the marking period will be over soon, so I my next major project is to grade a ton of stuff. Then, in 12 days, 14 hours, 39 minutes, and 31 seconds, SPRING BREAK arrives. Our little early preview of summer.

Tonight, Maddie and I went shopping by ourselves, cause Meggie is feeling sick. It was fun with it being just the two of us. I managed to push the stroller and a cart through Wal-Mart.

I am looking forward to a much more relaxing weekend. I would love to get outside and do some more yard work, but the forecast is all rain tomorrow. We are probably going to get area rugs for the living room and the playroom 'quadrant' of the family room. I also need to move the third wall unit from my parents over to our house. Then, I have a bunch of poster projects to grade, and a handbell performance on Sunday morning.

I feel better already haven gotten these last two weeks out of my mind and into this blog. Now I can relax. First, let's start with some sleep.

I leave you with an ADORABLE picture of Maddie.


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Sunday, March 11, 2007

Productive Weekend

I am FINALLY take back control of the yard. After today, I am no longer embarrassed with the state of our front yard. The back yard is a different story, but at least no neighbors can see that.

This weekend, the weather was BEAUTIFUL. It was so nice to get outside and do some yard work again. Meg thinks I am nuts for this, but I really enjoy yard work, and one of the most depressing things about winter is that you miss out on all of that. I spent about 4 hours outside today, first raking and bagging up all of the leaves in the front and side yards that were left over from the fall. Then, I weeded the garden, and discovered that many of the bulbs I planted in October are starting to come up. Some of my crocuses are already blooming. I can't wait to see what this garden will look like when everything blooms. There will definitely be some pictures.

Yard work was just one major accomplishment for the weekend. This morning, I did mail and money stuff as usual. Last night, I did not get much sleep. I stayed up late to get a large chunk of grading done, since I won't have time to do much of it next week with it being the last week to work on the yearbook. Then, we decided to try to sleep Maddie with one arm unswaddled--bad idea, she woke up 7 times last night. Usually when she wakes up, you can just give her a pacifier and she will fall back asleep. At about 6:30 (this is after going to bed around 1, and then losing an hour due to daylight savings), she woke up and wanted fed. I know this sounds like typical baby behavior, but Maddie has been consistently sleeping through the night for weeks now, so this was a bit of a surprise. After that feeding, Meg took over on baby duty, so I could catch up on some sleep. I woke up at 9 to the smell of coffee and the trumpet theme that is played at the beginning of CBS Sunday Morning with Charles Osgood.

Saturday was also a very productive day. We started with a $268 trip to Sam's Club. Since we've been shopping there, there has always been a little left over at the end of the month, meaning we only had to buy a little bit every month. Well, that overflow supply ran out. The 'store' was pretty much empty prior to Saturday, so this was a big trip. I don't like spending a lot of money, but it is fun to load up your cart with a bunch of stuff. Feels kinda powerful. After getting home, I organized the store, made sauce, and separated all of the meat into freezer bags portioned for meals. It doesn't sound like a lot, but I pretty much spent from 1 to about 8 or so in the kitchen doing something. After dinner I got to work on my grading (see above, I am working backwards again, whoops).

The rest of the week was busy as usual. Let's just say I am looking forward to the yearbook deadline being past us. I really enjoy working on the yearbook, but I don't enjoy finding the time to do it with everything else I have to do. My office is once again a disorganized mess. Until Saturday, I was behind on grading. Despite all of this, I am keeping up with my new discipline strategy, and life is actually much less stressful because of it. I am also teaching stuff that I perfected last year, so planning has been really easy.

Thursday was the annual Teen Arts Festival at the local community college. Last year, I took a very small group that I had just thrown together beforehand. This year, I actually started a 'music club' to prepare for the event, and brought 9 kids, divided into two different performing groups. I am glad I did this, because I felt much more prepared, and the kids took it much more seriously. I had a very trusting group, and didn't have any behavior issues, so all-in-all, it was a great day.

Next week is a crazy one. All of my free time will pretty much be devoted to finishing the yearbook. Next week is also round 1 of state testing, meaning my schedule is all wacky. It is also conferences, and I usually don't have any scheduled, since most parents don't have an issue with their kids in music class. I was looking forward to all of this extra time to work on yearbook, but that was all foiled when I was given a booked-solid conference schedule. The related arts teachers were included on several 'round robin' conferences (where all of a kid's teachers meet with the parent at once, sometime with the kid included). So, there goes that time.

Basically, here is what my week looks like:

  • Monday: Regular length school day * screwed up schedule due to testing * schedule actually allows for extra free time, which will be completely devoted to yearbook * leaving school at a decent hour * handbells at night
  • Tuesday: Short school day (dismissal at 12:45) * More weird scheduling * Meggie and Maddie visiting me for lunch * Yearbook until 7 (with dinner in there somewhere) * conferences till 9 (I just love the idea of being at school for 13 hours <- read that last statement with lots of sarcasm)
  • Wednesday: Short school day * weird schedule * conferences till 3:15 * yearbook till whenever I have to leave to make it to a rescheduled lesson, which hasn't been rescheduled yet--add that to Monday's list
  • Thursday: Short school day * weird schedule * conferences till 3:15 * yearbook until it is finished, regardless of how late that is.
  • Friday: Regular length, testing free school day. (hopefully) celebrating a fully-submitted yearbook.
Wow, lot's to do. Some unwinding time, and then I gotta get some sleep.

Sunday, March 04, 2007

Happy Birthdays

Tomorrow is Meggie's birthday, so that is the 1st "Happy Birthday."

The second is to this blog, which I started on March 4, 2006, with a very brief post. I can't believe I actually kept up with this thing for a year. Now, I don't post anywhere near as much as I did in the summer, but I still keep it up regularly.



Let's start with school... I much better, yet busy week. The yearbook deadline is looming. We submitted 7 more pages, and have 25 (of 64) left to go. There are still tons of pictures to take, and about 10 of those pages are layouts for parent ads. I am looking forward to March 16, when this will all be done!

The best part about this week was how well all of my classes went. I actually applied what I had learned at David Newell's workshop (don't get mad, don't argue, just give them a choice: rules or consequences, discipline with a pencil, etc.) and got immediate results in every single class. It does require me to go against my natural reaction. I just have to learn not to take it personally when a student misbehaves. I think the kids just seem to respect this more. I also think it helps, because, as Meg will point out, it is funny when I get mad, and the kids are entertained by it, and by not getting mad, they don't get that satisfaction. Let's hope it continues to work.

This upcoming week is also a busy one. Students will be handing in their third marking period projects, which of course means I have to grade them. I think I am going to put the grading off a cycle due to the yearbook deadline. I also have the Teen Arts Festival this week. The groups I am taking are ready for a change, so I am not really concerned about that. So much to do. Only 31 days 15 hours 59 minutes and 6 seconds till Spring Break, though!



Saturday was not as planned, but was still a really cool day. We had originally planned to go to Ikea to "just look around and get ideas." Well, that turned into, "let's borrow mom and dad's van, just in case we find something we want to buy," which turned into "let's buy everything we need to rearrange the family room." We borrowed my parents van, and my mom came along with us. I really love Ikea. It is such a neat store. You just look at so many things (both at what they sell, and how they do things), and you just think... "now, that's a good idea!" I also have a special memory with the store, since last time I was there, it was the day before the day that Meggie went into labor, and Maddie was born. I very vividly remember that trip to Ikea in the sequence of events leading up to Maddie's birth.

Well, anyway, we were looking for two pieces of furniture. The first was something to replace the broken bookshelf that all of our music books are on. What I really wanted was something with bins that you could slide in and out, but didn't think I'd find anything like that, so I figured a horizontal filing cabinet would be a good idea. Well, it turns out, Ikea had exactly what I was picturing. It's basically a shelf with 8 cubes, open on both sides. We also bought 8 bins to store the music. The bins fit perfectly into the cubes, and are even designed to slide in and out. The other piece of furniture we were looking for was some kind of toy organization system for Maddie's toys. We found one, which also has very colorful bins that slide in and out.

After some Swedish meatballs for lunch, we came home, and I got to work on rearranging the family room. I got rid of the treadmill that we never use, because it randomly shuts off--a BAD thing for a treadmill to do (ha ha- I keep misspelling "treadmill" as "dreadmill," --seems appropriate, doesn't it?). I also threw away the broken bookshelf, the hutch part of the baker's rack (it was too tall for it's new location), and the silk tree my grandparents gave me when the moved (Meggie is cheering about this now, since she's wanted to trash it for a while). Then, I moved all of the furniture to it's new location, assembled the new furniture, and got things cleaned up and organized. The results are below:



The music cabinet is in the lower-right corner of the picture, the toy chest behind.


This is a better view of the toy chest.

The basic idea for the family room was four different areas (quadrants, if you will). The room is rather large, so we made use of the furniture, and divided it up. There is the office area, the entertainment area, the music area (where I will be teaching lessons, you can see this area in the 2nd picture), and the play area (which can be seen from the first picture).

We still have more to do. We want to put a carpet in the play area. We still need to get the third wall unit from my parents. We also need to put some decorations in Maddie's play area.

We are very proud of our new family room; it is definitely now a pleasant place to hang.



This past Wednesday started Meggie's birthday celebrations, with our annual dinner out at one of her favorite restaurants, Don Pablo's. Everything was delicious as usual. I had all you can eat fajitas. Meggie just got the normal portion. We also got a free dip sampler, and 'sopapillas' (sp?) for dessert.

Earlier today Maddie and I had our first Daddy-Daughter outing to the Deptford Mall to go birthday shopping for Meggie. I can't get into too much detail, since Meggie will read this before she actually gets her presents.

Tonight at my parents we did the birthday dinner, cake, and present thing from my parents and Nick. Below you can see Maddie helping her Mommy celebrate:



Tomorrow, I am going to give my gifts to Meggie. It's kinda a bummer day for a birthday, since it is a school day, and we have handbells at night.



I leave you with random, though really cute picture of Maddie and Maxy bonding:



Happy Birthday Meggie!

Happy Birthday My Blog!

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